Is my birthday!!! And I am officially 27. I know the traditional birthday mindset is it’s all about me and it’s time to celebrate my life , but this year I want to take the time to share some of the amazing lessons I have learned during my 27 years of life . This is about giving back and sharing the tools and tips and even little reminders that helped me survive some days and thrive on others .

I hope they help you, I hope you connect . I feel so blessed to be here on this earth right now for so many reasons . Life is precious, it’s exhilarating and scary. It’s baffling and enlightening… it’s a wonder and a puzzle . And we should seek to embrace all that comes with it . This is how we are molded and shaped into the person we are meant to be . But only you can decide what that means , and you decide that by choosing how life shapes you . Do you learn the lessons life gives you ? Or do you become hardened and stubborn to growth and change ?

So for my birthday I want to give you all a gift . 10 gifts in fact. These are just 10 of the many tips and lessons I have learned so far .


  1. Be mindful of the energy you surround yourself with
  2. You deserve rest and relaxation. You will still be good enough if you take a break.
  3. Love yourself enough to say no to toxic people
  4. Always be early. 15 minutes is in time. Anything after that is late.
  5. Do your research. The well informed and prepared are easily trusted with opportunity.
  6. Care more about your charectar than what people think of you
  7. Your mindset is truly the divide between  success and failure
  8. Spend time with yourself in silence. Learn to ‘be’ without stimulation from technology
  9. When you find yourself in a difficult situation, center your responses by asking yourself what your desired result is, then tailor your actions to get you there.
  10. You have power, purpose, and potential. Don’t let others dim your light. Love yourself more than your favorite foods.

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